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Understanding Grief, Trauma, and Emotional Wellness

Growing Up Around Domestic Violence: Breaking the Cycle
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

Growing Up Around Domestic Violence: Breaking the Cycle

Growing up in a home with domestic violence can shape how you see yourself, others, and the world. This post explores the lasting emotional impact, how it shows up in adulthood, and how therapy—especially EMDR—can help you finally feel safe in your own life.

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It’s Not You, It’s Your Family: The Roots of Low Self-Esteem
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

It’s Not You, It’s Your Family: The Roots of Low Self-Esteem

Growing up in a dysfunctional family can quietly shape how you see yourself—often in ways you don’t realize until adulthood. This post explores how family-of-origin dynamics can lead to low self-esteem and how therapy can help you rebuild a stronger sense of self.

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AI Isn’t Your Therapist: The Dangers of Chatbot Counseling
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

AI Isn’t Your Therapist: The Dangers of Chatbot Counseling

While AI can offer 24/7 support at the push of a button, leaning too heavily on chatbots for emotional care may backfire, increasing isolation, emotional dependency, and even fueling mental health crises. Here’s why real human connection matters.

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5 Reasons Why Self-Pay Therapy Might Be the Best for You.
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

5 Reasons Why Self-Pay Therapy Might Be the Best for You.

Thinking about therapy but unsure about using insurance? Here’s the truth: self-pay therapy often gives you more privacy, flexibility, and freedom than you might expect. From keeping your records confidential to allowing personalized care without red tape, discover five reasons why self-pay could be the best investment in your mental health.

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The Top 5 Reasons to Try Telehealth Therapy
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

The Top 5 Reasons to Try Telehealth Therapy

Telehealth therapy brings expert support right to your screen—no traffic, no waiting rooms, no juggling your schedule like a circus act. Whether you’re working through grief, trauma, anxiety, or depression, online therapy can be just as effective as in-person sessions (and often a lot more convenient).

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Healing from Trauma: Transform with EMDR
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

Healing from Trauma: Transform with EMDR

If you’ve been through something hard—really hard—EMDR therapy might be the thing that finally helps you feel like yourself again. Let’s talk about why it works so well.

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The Real Impact of Mental Health Stigma and how to heal.
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

The Real Impact of Mental Health Stigma and how to heal.

Mental health stigma is more than just an uncomfortable topic—it’s a real barrier that keeps people from seeking the support they need. In this blog, we explore why stigma still persists, how it impacts those dealing with anxiety, trauma, grief, and depression, and what we can do to create a more supportive, judgment-free path to healing.

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Building Resilience and Emotional Well-Being
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

Building Resilience and Emotional Well-Being

Resilience isn’t about toughing it out—it’s about learning how to care for yourself, bounce back from emotional stress, and feel more steady in the face of grief, trauma, or everyday chaos. Let’s break it down together.

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Just Say No: Letting Go of Being a People Pleaser
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

Just Say No: Letting Go of Being a People Pleaser

People-pleasing often begins as a way to feel safe—especially for those who have experienced trauma or loss. It can look like always saying “yes,” avoiding conflict at all costs, or constantly prioritizing others’ needs over your own. Over time, though, this pattern can lead to exhaustion, resentment, and a loss of self. In this post, we’ll explore how people-pleasing develops, how it connects to grief and trauma, and what it looks like to begin choosing yourself with compassion and intention.

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How Dysfunctional Family Roles Shape Your Mental Health
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

How Dysfunctional Family Roles Shape Your Mental Health

Family roles like the Scapegoat, the Golden Child, and the Lost One aren’t just outdated tropes from sitcoms—they shape how we think, feel, and interact with the world. Understanding these roles can help you break free from unhealthy patterns and start healing.

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How Trauma Changes the Brain and How You Can Heal
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

How Trauma Changes the Brain and How You Can Heal

Trauma affects more than just emotions—it changes the way the brain functions, impacting memory, decision-making, and emotional regulation. Understanding these effects can help you regain control and begin the healing process with approaches like EMDR therapy and compassionate support.

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Navigating the  Minefield of Adult Child-Parent Conflict
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

Navigating the Minefield of Adult Child-Parent Conflict

Adult child-parent conflict is common and can feel overwhelming, but with the right tools—like therapy and self-awareness—it’s possible to heal and build healthier relationships. In this blog post, we explore practical tips for improving these dynamics and finding peace.

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The Benefits of EMDR: A Path to Healing Trauma and Anxiety
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

The Benefits of EMDR: A Path to Healing Trauma and Anxiety

Struggling with grief, trauma, or anxiety? EMDR therapy is a scientifically proven way to rewire the brain and ease emotional pain. Learn how this innovative approach helps Kansas City residents reclaim their lives through compassionate online therapy with Sara Wilper.

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You’ve made it through the holidays: Now What?
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

You’ve made it through the holidays: Now What?

As the holiday hustle fades, many of us find ourselves in a moment of transition. The season is behind us. So now what?

This in-between time offers a unique opportunity for reflection and intentional planning for the year ahead. Focus on growth, connection, and well-being.

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Rebuilding Connections After Grief or Trauma
Sara Wilper Sara Wilper

Rebuilding Connections After Grief or Trauma

Grief and trauma can leave you feeling isolated, even in moments meant for connection. Rebuilding relationships after loss takes time, but small steps—like honest communication, low-pressure interactions, and self-reflection—can make a big difference. Therapy can also offer a safe space to process emotions and develop strategies for reconnecting. Explore practical tips and support to help you heal and find meaningful connections again.

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